Andrea Zanin, sex geek extraordinaire, asked if I’d be interested in participating in this auto-interview/chain letter thing, and of course I said yes! I was really stoked to read about her book plans, and flattered by her recommendation of Cuntext, alongside some other sweet blogs that [...]
(Fingers crossed) I’m submitting to Sassafras Lowery’s upcoming collection of BDSM fairy tales, Leather Ever After. I started writing little snapshots every Sunday a few months ago, to get in the mood and see what struck my fancy. Here are a few that didn’t become my submission!
I am blessed with an extreme lack of sexual shame. I’m not entirely sure how I grew up to be so shameless as a queer, kinky woman in this homophobic, misogynistic, body-shaming world, but I have some ideas. It obviously helps that I’m fairly conventionally pretty (white, blonde, thin, able-bodied), that I’ve had access to [...]
I’ve been waiting to read this book since the call for submissions was posted in fall 2010, and it did not disappoint. It made me me think, it made me laugh, it made me fistpump and say “oh yeah” out loud, it made me cry, and, [...]
A slut is someone who will do anything to get sex. A slut is committed. A slut is determined. She is dedicated. She goes after it. She prioritizes it. A slut pushes herself, wants more, seeks more, takes more. Her desire is that strong.
Show me how much you want it. Show me. C’mon, you [...]
Femme Day of Action: I’m not sure yet what this will entail, but I hear there’s an organizing meeting later this month, and I’m excited to see what will unfold!
Play Party, Day 2
I’m naked except for the boots, thigh-high brown leather. She’s fully dressed in all-black leathers, smooth on my skin when she comes in close. My palms are flat against the wall, my feet spread wide so her canes have plenty of room to slip up and down my inner thighs. [...]
A Canadian judge tries to sort out the question of “Can you consent to sex when you’re voluntarily choked unconscious?” The answer is obviously no. Kink really confuses people considering this question! Also, my thesis said that too.
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