Easy: Valuing Bottoming

By On 15/02/2013 · Leave a Comment · In fucking and the theory thereof, gender, kink, queertastic

Mornings with the boy, I nearly always want to fuck him. I feel his solid limbs heavy with sleep, and there’s something about the trust implicit in him begging for it while still half-dreaming that makes it impossible not to pull his ass back into me and wrap an arm around his throat. Years ago, [...]

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Blog-Hop

By On 15/11/2012 · Leave a Comment · In kink

Andrea Zanin, sex geek extraordinaire, asked if I’d be interested in participating in this auto-interview/chain letter thing, and of course I said yes! I was really stoked to read about her book plans, and flattered by her recommendation of Cuntext, alongside some other sweet blogs that [...]

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Leather Ever After: The Outtakes

By On 26/07/2012 · 2 Comments · In kink, stories about sex

(Fingers crossed) I’m submitting to Sassafras Lowery’s upcoming collection of BDSM fairy tales, Leather Ever After. I started writing little snapshots every Sunday a few months ago, to get in the mood and see what struck my fancy. Here are a few that didn’t become my submission!

“Little [...]

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Princess

By On 17/05/2012 · Leave a Comment · In femme, fucking and the theory thereof, gender, kink

I’m a princess.

This is kind of hard to admit. When I write it without a “fucking” to harden it, I cringe. I was raised on Tonka trucks and overalls, playing in the dirt, no-Barbies-allowed, on self-sufficiency and confidence, on competence. When Nic and I started dating, she used to say, “Anything for you, [...]

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Dear Internet, You’re a Bro

By On 19/04/2012 · Leave a Comment · In fucking and the theory thereof, kink, pussy

I am blessed with an extreme lack of sexual shame. I’m not entirely sure how I grew up to be so shameless as a queer, kinky woman in this homophobic, misogynistic, body-shaming world, but I have some ideas. It obviously helps that I’m fairly conventionally pretty (white, blonde, thin, able-bodied), that I’ve had access to [...]

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Reading in Cuntext: Yes Please, Say Please

By On 12/04/2012 · 3 Comments · In commentary, femme, gender, kink, queertastic, reviews, stories about sex

I’ve been waiting to read this book since the call for submissions was posted in fall 2010, and it did not disappoint. It made me me think, it made me laugh, it made me fistpump and say “oh yeah” out loud, it made me cry, and, [...]

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Slut?

By On 05/04/2012 · 1 Comment · In commentary, femme, fucking and the theory thereof, kink

A slut is someone who will do anything to get sex. A slut is committed. A slut is determined. She is dedicated. She goes after it. She prioritizes it. A slut pushes herself, wants more, seeks more, takes more. Her desire is that strong.

Show me how much you want it. Show me. C’mon, you [...]

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Personal Development, or Things I Will Attend in 2012

By On 04/01/2012 · Leave a Comment · In events, femme, fucking and the theory thereof, gender, kink, pussy, queertastic

January 2012

Femme Day of Action: I’m not sure yet what this will entail, but I hear there’s an organizing meeting later this month, and I’m excited to see what will unfold!

April 2012

Alvin Ailey American Dance Theater: [...]

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Three Snapshots: Unholy Harvest 2011

By On 03/11/2011 · 1 Comment · In events, femme, gender, kink, queertastic

Play Party, Day 2
I’m naked except for the boots, thigh-high brown leather. She’s fully dressed in all-black leathers, smooth on my skin when she comes in close. My palms are flat against the wall, my feet spread wide so her canes have plenty of room to slip up and down my inner thighs. [...]

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“Advance” consent is, uh, NOT A THING.

By On 11/11/2010 · Leave a Comment · In commentary, kink

A Canadian judge tries to sort out the question of “Can you consent to sex when you’re voluntarily choked unconscious?” The answer is obviously no. Kink really confuses people considering this question! Also, my thesis said that too.

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