I enlisted a femme friend to help me with my Halloween costume this year. On top of the pink fence-net tights and the short-short pink dress with sequins and the long pink wig, I wanted to wear pink-striped false eyelashes and a full face of makeup, and I have not the faintest idea how [...]
So, After Ellen recently published an article hot mess of transphobic fail on the cotton ceiling, a term coined by Drew DeVeaux to explain queer trans women’s experiences with “simultaneous social inclusion and sexual exclusion”. Other than the entire premise of [...]
Doll Parts, Hole | “i want to be the girl with the most cake”
I almost titled my post on “princess” after this song. Part of being a princess is wanting everything, never being satisfied with mediocrity, always desiring [...]
My femme is voracious.
I am hungry all the time. Hungry for words and information, satiated only when I’ve [...]
I’ve been waiting to read this book since the call for submissions was posted in fall 2010, and it did not disappoint. It made me me think, it made me laugh, it made me fistpump and say “oh yeah” out loud, it made me cry, and, [...]
Femme Day of Action: I’m not sure yet what this will entail, but I hear there’s an organizing meeting later this month, and I’m excited to see what will unfold!
This is an exercise in integration: integration of myself as crazy, myself as femme, myself as bottom (and sometimes top), myself as sexual, myself embodied, myself whole. Today has been a rough day for my mental health; when I have a borderline breakdown, it’s very fragmenting. In general, life as someone who has borderline personality [...]
Play Party, Day 2
I’m naked except for the boots, thigh-high brown leather. She’s fully dressed in all-black leathers, smooth on my skin when she comes in close. My palms are flat against the wall, my feet spread wide so her canes have plenty of room to slip up and down my inner thighs. [...]
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